Wednesday, January 27, 2016
Pieces of advice I wish I had before leaving for EIE
1. Do not feel obligated to be best friends with every single person on your trip. Find your group of people that you get along well with. No matter how close you are with someone on the trip, they will always be there for you as a support system. You're all family on EIE and family is always there for each other, but that does not mean in any way that you have to hang out and absolutely love everyone.
2. Stay on top of your schoolwork. No matter how tempting it is to just hang out with your friends or to take a trip up to the tel (with a madrich) take the short amount of time it takes to do the work and just get it over with. Your workload should not be overwhelming to the point where you feel like you have no free time.
3. Use your free time wisely. As much fun as it is to stay in and watch Netflix (which just came to Israel, I'm incredibly jealous) go for a walk around the kibbutz, do your homework on the basketball court or on the balcony, have a conversation with the people on the kibbutz or the nice people working in the markolit. There is so much to do on the kibbutz. Don't just sit inside and do work like you would at home.
4. Call your family every week. I know this seems kind of obvious, but you will occasionally feel like calling your family is a chore rather than something you want to do. That's because it is. You are thousands of miles away from your family on an amazing adventure and they want to hear from you how it's going rather than from your Facebook posts or blog. Sometimes it can be good to get an outside view on how to deal with certain things as well.
5. Journal or blog about your experiences. Yes, this seems like I'm giving you homework, but believe me when I say if you do not write about what you saw, when you saw it, how it made you feel, what you learned about it, you will forget it. You can take as many pictures as you want of where you are but writing about it really solidifies the experience. This is crucial for when you are in Poland. Unfortunately, I lost all my notes from the five day trip and I can just remember the sites we saw and not how I felt or what I learned from them. I don't remember the fun things we did during the days to lighten the mood and it's very upsetting to think about. Your journal entries don't need to be extensive. Maybe four or five sentences about your day. Just, please, try to remember to do it.
6. You don't need hundreds of pictures of everything you see. Pictures are nice to look back at but if you are spending your whole trip behind a camera you are not truly experiencing the incredible land of Israel. I am not saying you shouldn't take a lot of pictures because you most definitely should, but during significant tiyulim take less pictures of what you are learning about and experience the small moments you and your friends will have. Not only do you want to remember where you were but you want to remember who you were with and the silly/stupid jokes you guys made. It's the little moments when you're not learning about something from your JHist teacher that you will bond you to those around you.
7. Take notes on paper not on your computer. I was able to absorb so much more information from my Jewish History class when I switched from taking notes on my computer to taking notes in my notebook (which I still have with me at college). It makes studying for tests easier and it makes learning easier when you are not distracted by whatever is going on on Twitter or Facebook. As much as you think typing notes in class will make life easier, it really doesn't. If you REALLY need to type your notes, do it after writing them in your notebook. The 4000 years of Jewish History you learn about is honestly so interesting and is the whole reason you are in Israel on EIE right now. Don't take advantage of how truly amazing our history is by just scrolling through social media during class.
8. Speak Hebrew as often as you can. Practice what you learn! Even if its stupid little sentences like "may I use the bathroom?". Talk to your teachers in Hebrew. It doesn't necessarily have to be your Hebrew teacher, talk to any teacher in Hebrew. They all live there, they all know Hebrew. Practice makes perfect.
9. Cova v'mayim. For the love of Hashem, make your hat and water bottle your best friends. Your madrichim will nag you to no end about making sure you have them at all times on your tiyulim.
9. Thank your parents and everyone that helped get you to Israel. I know this is incredible cliche, but many people forget to do it. Your friends and family are the reason you are in Israel right now. Without their support this trip would not have happened. If anyone donated money, be sure to thank them as well!
NFTY-EIE is the most transformative four months of your life. You will create the most amazing memories in the next four months and hopefully those memories will stay with you for a lifetime. The friendships you make at Tzuba will be some of the strongest friendships you will ever have because the people on this trip with you will be your family by the end of these four months.
Tuesday, September 9, 2014
High Expectations Need to Go
Tuesday, July 22, 2014
A Few Interesting Things You Should Probably See
Dear Hamas
Dear Hamas,
I hate you. Your ability to turn Jewish people against their own state is repulsive. The images you show of Palestinian women and children severly injured or murdered just as an attempt to get sympathy and corrupt the minds of people all over the world is disgusting. You make it seem like its not your fault these innocent human beings are targeted when in reality, you use them to protect the bomb and missiles meant for populated areas in Israel, yet we're the ones to blame for retaliation and for trying to protect the land we love. Have you ever warned the citizens of Gaza about a possible missle or bomb landing in their area? No. Have you ever let called YOUR citizens warning them to leave so they may protect themselves and their families? No. Have you ever taken in a wounded Israeli soldier to your hospitals to help him survive his injuries? No. Yet why is Israel getting all the heat for protecting its citizens? We warn Israeli's with a siren to give them time to get to a bomb shelter, we've called your people, the Palestinian Citizens of Gaza, warning them of future attacks near them and we have suggested they flee, we have taken in YOUR people, Hamas terrorists, into our hospitals to be under our care yet Israel is still the bad guy. Throughout Operation Protective edge, you have sent out tons of propoganda saying that your citizens are dying, showing videos and pictures, some of which aren't even from this year or from the middle east. You use clips from movies as a disgusting act to gain not only support but attention. I am sick and tired of people defending you, a terrorist organization that has been in power way too long, instead of Israel, a country dedicated to making inside its boreders the safest place for Jews who seek shelter from opression and anti-semitism.
Palestinians can complain all they want about you, but one thing people have to remember is that they elected you into power in 2006. It is not our fault you were given a position in government and the power to do whatever the hell you want with your people. None of this is Israel's fault. Its all on you.
Sincerely,
Not your biggest fan.
Monday, May 19, 2014
What to Bring Home....
Wednesday, May 14, 2014
66 Israeli Women That You Should Know: Ester Rada
I really like the influence that she has on Israeli youth especially for Ethiopian children. She's someone to look up to. I find her such a beautiful human being inside and out with an incredible voice and her drive to make bring her to where she is now is amazing.
I have already downloaded Life Happens on to my phone and I look up to her for her determination and successful rise from where she was to where she is now.
Monday, May 12, 2014
Suffering is Not a Competition
The point of this whole "competition" is to be the center of attention. To prove that you're suffering more. But its not about who's gone through more hardships or who's been hurt worse, its about getting the most attention. It's something that I personally find disgusting and I'm definitely guilty of doing it.
The real reason we got on this topic was because of the talk of religion. How the Jews have been persecuted so many time throughout history but the only persecution and mass murder of Jews that anyone ever remembers is the Holocaust. The numerous other terrible times for the Jews are always forgotten because they're not as recent.
You can't rely on one piece information to back up your argument and the Holocaust should not be a reason for you to be the center of attention.
(I know this was a little all over the place but I feel like I covered what I wanted to and that's all that matters.)
Thursday, May 1, 2014
Music
But ever since I was introduced to Israeli music, my love of just music in general has been totally changed. I am so thankful that I was able to go to Chalutzim at OSRUI (a seven week Hebrew immersion program that I highly recommend to anyone) and learn from my two very musical Hebrew teachers all about music. Our class names were even Israeli bands. Mine was Hatikvah 6 (shesh) and now one of my favorite songs is one of theirs called Kol Yom M'Hadash. Its truly a beautiful song about how every day is a new day. It always puts me in the best mood after listening to it because it brings back memories and has such a meaningful message.
Another song I REALLY love that has helped me get through so many tough times is called Yihye Tov (Things Will Get Better). It's a beautiful song by David Broza, probably the one of the most talented guitarists in the world. If you don't know any of his songs I strongly suggest looking him up because he's got a beautiful voice and even more beautiful words.
So to get to the point, music has a huge influence on my life, but now knowing these Hebrew songs my library and taste in music has been changed and improved because of this wonderful piece of Israeli culture.
If you ever want any good Hebrew songs I have plenty and I'm willing to share. :)
Tuesday, April 29, 2014
Why Minecraft is Better than the Peace Talks.
Tuesday, April 22, 2014
Who Loves Matzah?
One Year Ago
Monday, March 17, 2014
Who's Wearing What?
In an article on the Times of Israel ( http://www.timesofisrael.com/events/dress-codes-revealing-the-jewish-wardrobe-5/ ) the different varieties of clothing options are shown.
One thing that really stood out to me from the article was the theme of "Through The Veil" where dress for Jewish women is explained and how it was influenced by Islamic culture. A woman covering her body was an expression of modesty, which is not unlike today. To me it seems that this culture has been passed down and kept by the Hassidic and Ultra Orthodox around the world. This idea of a woman being modestly dressed as to not distract a man or "tempt" him is one I understand but don't entirely agree with. I believe that a person should have the ability and the right to express themselves through dress, piercings, tattoos (that is only to some extent) and what ever else they choose to express their feelings or personality.
Another thing I found important was the purpose of undergarments. Today we use bras and underwear for support which is similar for back then, but underneath all of the clothes, would draw attention to the parts of the body that this particular dress was meant to cover.
The rest of the article is very interesting and I strongly suggest reading it if you get the chance.
Monday, March 10, 2014
What Makes You Jewish?
****I would like to emphasize that these are MY PERSONAL OPINIONS and in no way at all what actually makes you a Jew.****
Coming from a very Jewish community like the North Shore of Chicago, I hear very often people saying they are Jewish at my school and many others in the area. My guess would be that around 60 percent of my school in particular considers themselves Jewish. I believe that around 10 percent of that 60 are actually Jewish.
To me being Jewish does not mean that because your mother is Jewish, you are by default Jewish. To be considered Jewish in my eyes, you must have been called to the Torah for an aliyah during your Bar/Bat Mitzvah and you must have continued your Jewish study after to the point where you become confirmed or you graduate high school. I believe that if you do not go to high holiday services every year, you are not Jewish. If you do not observe Shabbat every once in a while (that most definitely includes a youth group event like NFTY or a temple youth group event) I do not consider you Jewish. If you do not have a basic understanding of the holiday you get off for school, I don't think I can consider you Jewish.
Though it may seem like I have very high standards, its an important topic to me and I feel like some people say they're Jewish without even realizing what that actually entails and without knowing anything about their religion.
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
Masada: Much Challenge, Such Asthma
Israel is Safe. I promise.
Tuesday, February 18, 2014
Update on my ankle
Monday, February 17, 2014
My first Googly Eyes.

Shopping, Skating, and Superfriends
Saturday, February 15, 2014
Some Interesting Statistics
The article I was assigned this week was the one below on what drives success.
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/01/26/opinion/sunday/what-drives-success.html?emc=eta1&_r=1
Its really interesting to see how a persons ethnicity affects their success. The fact that some stereotypes are actually correct about some people is both disturbing and intriguing and I'm not entirely sure how I feel about it. Being able to succeed based on race isn't something that should be taken lightly. If Asians have a better chance of getting a job than a perfectly able and smart person of any other race JUST because they are Asian is definitely unfair.
Now, that is not the topic of the article, saying one ethnic group has an advantage over another, but that there are recent statistics that "debunk" these stereotypes. I'm just very glad that in today's society people realize that stereotypes are not the truth.
You can relate that directly to Jews and their stereotypes. Like being good with money, big noses, super religious, greedy, etc. The majority of Jews do not possess these traits. For example, I do not have a big nose, I'm not religious and I'm most definitely NOT good with money.......
If you want an interesting read, I suggest reading this article, its one that I truly enjoyed reading and a topic I really liked learning about.
Saturday, February 8, 2014
Gettin down and Dirty - February 7, 2014
Friday morning we went to a farm in Jerusalem (outside of Jerusalem? I'm not entirely sure).
It wasn't just a plain old farm with nothing really special, it was a VERY special farm. This particular farm gives jobs to teenagers that have dropped out of school, haven't gone to college, or are on the street. It gives them an opportunity to not only get their lives together but it gives them a job in agriculture. There are teachers/therapists that also work to help to get those kids on the right track while working on the farm.
When we went to the farm, none of them were there because it was Friday and they don't have to work on Fridays.
Because Jerusalem was basically built on rock, it is hard to get fertile soil, so our job was to go through the huge field they already had plowed a bit and pick up rocks and bring them over to the side.
A few friends and I, to make the job more fun, started singing "Look Down" from my favorite musical "Les Miserables" and plenty of other songs. (We may have gone through the entire first half of the musical.) I truly enjoyed being able to get dirty with friends and sing the greatest songs on the planet.
This went on for two hours. Yes, it was VERY hard work, my back hurts still, my legs are sore, and I'm exhausted but I really don't mind because the faces of those kids when they see they don't have to clear that entire area of rocks is all that really matters. As long as they feel that there are people that are there to support them and want to help them and make sure they get to where they need to be in life is all that should ever be thought of when I think of this experience.




